A cheat sheet made for Molly

Working well with ChatGPT

Four habits for better answers, and the settings behind them.

Ask well

Talk to it like a smart friend who knows nothing about your situation.

Instead ofWhat job should I do?

Try

Which careers use the skills a server builds, like staying calm under pressure, juggling tasks and looking after people? Give me five, with the training each needs, how long it takes and the usual hours.

Instead ofFix my résumé.

Try

Turn these server duties into three résumé bullet points for jobs outside restaurants: taking orders on a busy floor, handling complaints, training new staff and closing out the till. Use plain, confident words.

Keep chats separate

ChatGPT does its best work when each chat sticks to one thing.

What ChatGPT knows about you

Memory
It can remember things from earlier chats. See, change or turn it off in SettingsPersonalizationMemory. You can also ask “What do you remember about me?” or say “Forget that…”
Custom instructions
Tell it once how you like answers, like “Keep it short and plain.” Find them in SettingsPersonalization, or SettingsCustomize ChatGPT in the phone app.
Temporary chat
A clean slate that stays out of your history and memory. In a new chat, tap Temporary. Pick Unpersonalized first if you want it to ignore what it knows about you.

Chat, co-work, code

Three ways to use AI, and ChatGPT has all three. In its phone and desktop apps, pick Chat or Work at the top of the screen.

Chat

Everyday questions

You ask, it answers, you steer.

For questions, ideas, explanations and first drafts.

In ChatGPTChat, the usual mode.

Co-work

Jobs with many steps

You hand it a job, and it does the steps.

It plans, works through your files, apps and the web, and hands back finished work, like a spreadsheet comparing training programs. It asks before important steps, so read what it plans before you say yes.

In ChatGPTWork. Any plan in the desktop app; Plus or higher on the web and phone.

ElsewhereClaude Cowork, Microsoft Copilot Cowork.

Code

Programmers

It writes and runs software.

You can skip this one.

In ChatGPTCodex, in the desktop app. ElsewhereClaude Code.

“Co-work” is a product name more than a settled term. ChatGPT calls it Work; Claude and Microsoft call it Cowork.

Trust, but check

It sounds just as sure when it’s wrong.